Within healthy limits, I don't believe it's wrong or immoral for young children to have childish fantasies, dreams and imaginations. But, at Christmas time, I do believe it's important to direct my ten year old son's focus on the truth and reality of Jesus' birth, especially in a time when secular culture seems to be conditioning society towards greed, selfishness and unaccountability - not to mention the secularism and commercialism of the holiday itself.
Like many Christian parents, I want my son to learn gratitude, charity, compassion, unselfishness, accountability, etc. - all the virtues of Godly character.
Recently, I took Jordan with me to visit a local nursing home. We sang some gospel songs and Christmas songs to some very precious elderly people there. We gave them Christmas gifts and stayed to visit with many of them for a while after our mini-concert.
Jordan loved every minute of it. He enjoyed "entertaining" them with his songs and his own brand of "comedy." And afterwards, he listened to their stories with great fascination. And I was so proud to see him pouring out so much love to each one he visited, as if they were his own family - he didn't meet one stranger.
Jordan learned of the nursing home's "Adopt A Grandparent" program and later told me he wanted to participate and visit the nursing home on a regular basis. So, now, we have a new "extended family."
After our nursing home visit that day, we headed to a nearby church for a special Christmas concert that evening to benefit "Toys For Tots," an event in which Jordan also participated.
As Jordan chatted with me about the events of the day, another opportunity was given for me to explain more and emphasize to him another factor of the true meaning of Christmas, and why it's so important.
Christmas has a genuine, eternal purpose. God gave our lives meaning and purpose through His son, Jesus Christ.
Santa wouldn't even have a job if Jesus hadn't arrived.
Jordan and I wish you a Merry Christmas and a healthy, prosperous new year!
Happy Birthday, Jesus!